Thursday, February 20, 2014

Let me clear this up! :)


I believe in old fashioned values. 
 
For me in our marriage this means DD, TiH, TTWD. I used to think we were more D/s.  However, as time goes on and our TiH/DD relationship continues to grow through trial and error, we are finding what works for US, and we are realizing that we have a tendency to lean more towards TiH. But I do think its fair to say that we have a good mixture of all four with what works for us.    They are all about the same in some shape or form, they are all about having a head and being submissive the way we should.
 
Let me be very clear in my next statement.   I do not, and never have, and never will believe in BDSM.   This is my blog so I am voicing my thoughts.   :)     So if you come here to read I want you to know that straight up.  I will never advocate or post things like that here or in the community that I own.
 
I was looking back through my blog and I see some pictures and wording of some blogs that could make it seem we are way more leaning towards D/s.   But that is just not true, so I want to make sure I clear that up. Maybe at one time when finding "us" we did, but now I think we just have a very well rounded TiH relationship that covers a lot of many different things.    In the near future I will probably go back and remove some of those pictures and might even change the wording of some, or delete them all together.  
 
For me this is consensual domestic discipline within the confines of a marriage of a man and woman. 
 
(Below I found from another website and I think it sums it up perfectly!)
 
In today's world this is definitely not politically correct, but today's world isn't in such great shape is it?  What America needs is a full-fledged return to the values and morals this country was founded upon and that made it great.  The time when men were real men and being a submissive wife did not mean she was a doormat.  The strongest woman I know is the one who willingly places herself in subjection to her own husband despite his flaws.
 
So there you go!  
 
Jane
 
 

8 comments:

  1. I agree Jane. I think it takes a very strong woman to submit to her husband. DD isn't for sissies!

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    1. Thanks Queenie for your response!

      Exactly!!!! It is not easy, but it is doable and will make things in a marriage go a lot smoother! :)

      Jane

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  2. We are learning as we go. It is certainly not easy but no one said it was. But it is great!

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    1. I think even us that are experienced with DD, TiH, TTWD, LDD, CDD will always be on some level learning as we go. I think it will be an ongoing process. One that reaps wonderful benefits! Except when your butt is glowing! HA! Just Kidding! ;) Kinda! ;)

      Jane

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  4. While I found out when I was in my early preteens that grown women sometimes got spanked by men, I never knew BDSM existed until I borrowed a copy of Marquis de Sade's works when I was in my late teens. Even then, I had no idea what it was called. Later, of course, I found out.

    As I pointed out in a previous post on a different threat, I discovered after being seduced by an older woman when I was a teenager that men really can straighten out a woman by seriously and preferably privately spanking her bare bottom!

    A few years later, I asked my wife why women submit to being spanked by men. She said, secretly, women want men to take charge.

    My wife went on to explain that this desire for submission starts early in a girl's life. According to her, even she says otherwise, a teenage daughter still wants her father to beat her butt if she' been a bad girl. That's why girls will sometimes act out until someone finally spanks her!!!

    As it turns out, there is a good reason for this. Typically females are conservative. They've been bred for millennia to be submissive to men. If this weren't the case, the human race would have gone extinct generations ago.

    Modern society lost its way when it convinced men that spanking their daughters and wives was abusive. It's not. Yet, this pernicious lie has so undermined traditional family structure as to turn it into an object of derision.

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